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Divorced and Remarried Catholics in the Church
The Church has not forgotten nor rejected those who are divorced and have entered into another union, affirmed Milan's archbishop.

Cardinal Dionigi Tettamanzi affirmed this in a pastoral letter directed to the divorced and remarried titled "The Lord Is Close to the Brokenhearted."

"The fact that these relationships are frequently lived with a sense of responsibility and with love among the couple and for the children is a reality that the Church and its pastors take into account," the cardinal wrote. "It is an error to think that the norm regulating access to Eucharistic Communion means that divorced and remarried couples are excluded from a life of faith and charity, lived within the ecclesial community."

Certainly, "the Christian life has its summit in full participation in the Eucharist, but it is not reduced only to the summit," he said.

The cardinal asked divorced and remarried to "participate with faith in Mass," even though they cannot receive Communion. "The richness of ecclesial community life continues to be available to those who cannot receive Holy Communion," he affirmed.

The 73-year-old cardinal said that the Church hopes from these couples "an active presence and a willingness to serve those who need their help," beginning with the educational task they have as parents.

Article provided by ZENIT News Agency.


Some also have a mistaken idea that the divorce itself separates a member from receiving Holy Communion; not true.  Rather, the invalid state of a SACRAMENTAL marriage precludes reception. 

In all cases of doubt, please ask me how this precept of the Church applies to your own situation.  We could also discuss remedies that allow the sacramentalization of subsequent marriages that will bring about full communion.  The solutions do not always involve a declaration of nullity (an "anullment").

Fr Steve




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Electronic giving to the parish
Did you know that you can go to the parish webpage, click on "E-giving online offering" and make your church contribution?  You can give to any collection:  the regular, a special one, or even a specific donation such as the fund for support of seminarians.

It's really simple.  When you click there, you'll open a new window where you can set up (and from then on, sign in to) an option to make your donation from directly from your banking account.  The process is simple, quick and painless. 

If you pay your bills online, you can add St Vincent de Paul as a payee, too.  No stamp, no envelope, and nothing to loose makes electronic giving good for you and for us as a parish family.  Of course, your contributions will be recorded in the parish for your end-of-the-year statement for tax purposes or your records.

Give it a try.  I use it.
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9/5/2007 8:57 AM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Parish budget and financial accountability
I'm really surprised by how few parish pastoral and financial reports were taken over the last three weekends. We printed around 200 and perhaps 40 were gone when I checked today.
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5/9/2007 1:13 PM | View Comments (1) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Are Catholics Saved, part II
This little analogy, though imperfect, might help to delineate Catholic/Protestant differences.
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4/26/2007 8:10 AM | View Comments (2) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Are Catholics "Saved?"
How many times have you been asked this by well-meaning people, ever in your own family?
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4/25/2007 12:33 PM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
A brief explanation of the Stations of the Cross
The stations of the cross are a living memory of the words and gestures of the final earthly day of Jesus Christ.
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3/30/2007 6:00 PM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Re: the padding of the pews
The padding is coming soon.
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3/28/2007 8:05 AM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
A question to the whole parish
Last month I concluded a series on "Explaining and Defending Our Catholic Faith." What topics would you like to see covered in new sessions?
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3/16/2007 1:07 PM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
What do I do on a day off?
I'm just back from 48 hours away from the parish.
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3/13/2007 2:29 PM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
What happens to the offering you make for a Mass?
At finance council last Thursday, every member was surprised to learn that I do not keep any monies given as a gift for offering the Mass.
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